love the haters

there will always be trolls whether online or in real life. trolldom can be sneaky, disguised as solid advice to keep you and your baby safe, or it can be plain mean, taking the form of jealous condescension or petty gossip. 

no matter how it manifests know that the haters hate on you, preggo badass, because you are doing something that they do not understand: you are trusting that your bodily vehicle was made to brachiate and cook a new human. 

so when someone says something snarky about you 'still climbing!' don't feel you need to defend yourself, just smile and proceed to send. I'm standing with you.